Influencing people is a skill that can do wonders. As an engineer, a reserved person, and an introvert, how do you influence others?
What steps one must take if you are not native English speaker but can operate well with good speaking/writing skills?
Humor helps a lot. The easiest humor to deploy is to describe a mistake you made and the rueful realization of it. So a popular blog format is 'how I fell into a hole - silly me! - and then pulled myself out after multiple failed attempts.' Everyone fails so writing about problems in an entertaining way makes them feel better about themselves. Don't make fun of other people. Satirists make a good living at this but they already know they're funny and are willing to give up part of their audience because they're confident of being consistently very amusing to the rest.