This is of course true in a very general sense, but both men and women can radically up their game if they genuinely care to and are halfway-smart about it. There are lots of things about how to relate to others in a friendly and self-assertive wrt. sexuality that society does a very bad job of teaching the general public about, and that can make a real difference.
Yeah, if you are smart enough, you could compensate in other ways, but is seems the reality is different. People aren't smart enough on average to compensate for the simple factors which seem to guide people make the decisions.
