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Don’t Be a Dick (betterelevation.com)
33 points by superchink on June 13, 2011 | hide | past | favorite | 6 comments



If you introduce yourself as a model (of any gender), and then tell someone that you don't recognize the Bottlerocket logo, you will identify with a different demographic. It's important to note that the guy was not dismissive, as in "You're a woman, therefore you wouldn't understand this." It was a recognition that practically nobody knows who John Gruber is.


You know - there is another very good reason why you don't want to be a dick to people. Because interestingly enough - people who are into power games and ego just won't respect you, and after they've had their fun making you feel small, they'll likely avoid and ignore you.

If you're consistent enough in not being a dick, eventually those that remain around you will also not be dicks and your life overall will be much more pleasant.

The dicks deserve one another - and more often than not, that's exactly what they will receive.


Wow. It's the sort of rubbish that I'd expect to see on The Register. ZDNet is the National Enquirer of the IT and computing blogosphere I suppose.


OK- but what about this childlike behavior from Jim Dalrymple to the author of the ZDNet article?

Phone in my hand, a gentleman named Jim Dalrymple turned to me and says loudly, “Hey, what phone is that?”

I respond, It’s an Android, Samsung-

Before I finish he shouts at me, “Sucks for you!” Laughing, he turns, and then walks away as I’m saying to the men looking embarrassed in his stead

Seriously? And people wonder why conferences are huge sausagefests.


From the article:

"Ed note: Dalrymple has a different account. He said that his laugh was in relation to another comment—about hockey—and he didn’t walk out first. His comments regarding Android at WWDC had nothing to do with Blue being female."

Not saying one is right and the other is wrong, just pointing out that there were two different accounts of the exchange.

Also, if someone said that to me I wouldn't want to attend the event either, regardless of my gender. This is not excluding women from tech, this is excluding nice people. Either way it needs to change, but it seems unnecessary to bring gender into this (assuming, of course, that he would have made the same comment to someone of a different gender).


Sounds like Dalrymple is also a dick and thus falls subject to the same criticism as before.

The author noted this through sarcasm when he said "Someone made you feel stupid in public? How awful."




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