Java standard library does that, not you directly. The issue here is not performance, but rather ergonomics. For example, in Go, you can forget to assign the result of append to the variable, and it'll even work most of the time (because there was still some unused capacity in the array, so there was no need for reallocation).
Java arrays don't have add() at all - they're fixed-size once allocated.
ArrayList etc do have add(), and they implement it by re-allocating the backing array once capacity is exceeded.
In practice, you'd use the ArrayList anyway. I don't think it's worthwhile comparing Go and Java "language-only", because the standard library is as much a part of the language definition as the fundamental syntax; indeed, what goes where is largely arbitrary. E.g. maps in Go are fundamental, but the primary reason is that they couldn't be implemented as a library in Go with proper type safety, due to the lack of generics.