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Portraits for Online Dating (cupidshot.co)
2 points by zshanidze on Nov 27, 2020 | hide | past | favorite | 2 comments



Hello Guys. If you don't have good photos for dating apps, you can find photographers in your city who specialize in dating photography.


A lot of those are really good photos, and I really think that a good photo is critical for success on a dating site. It's not just about being physically attractive, but that a good photo conveys personality -- including the sense that you care enough about your profile that youre not just grabbing the first selfie off your phone.

That said... in my personal experience a good candid shot is more effective than a portrait. These portraits are all lovely but they don't say much about you. One says "I have a dog", and some distinguish "I like cities" from "I like being in nature". But the bokeh removes one of my most important tools for looking at a dating profile -- knowing what to say for my opening line. Being able to look closely at the photo and say, "You like X? I like X too!" or "Tell me about your trip to Y" is infinitely better than "Hi" or "You look nice."

It may be that a good portrait is the best front picture, and you supplement it with candids. A good portrait doesn't make you look good so much as it gives a truer sense of what you really look like.




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