There aren't enough people here to do that (that I actually speak to at least).
As an aside, I have a last name with an unusual spelling. Literally everyone who sees it asks how it is pronounced, followed by where it is from. It is just a fact of life.
By asking the question, people clearly want to know more. Sure, they might be asking the wrong question, but the reality is, they are trying to include you.
If people didn't want you to belong, they would just make the assumption on their own and not ask (and probably avoid talking to you altogether).
As an aside, I have a last name with an unusual spelling. Literally everyone who sees it asks how it is pronounced, followed by where it is from. It is just a fact of life.
By asking the question, people clearly want to know more. Sure, they might be asking the wrong question, but the reality is, they are trying to include you.
If people didn't want you to belong, they would just make the assumption on their own and not ask (and probably avoid talking to you altogether).