You are trying to look at a different problem. It was absolutely correct that 1/3 of the students at one table of 3 plus another 1/3 of the students at another table of 3 is the same number as 2/6 of the 6 students sitting at the two tables. This is not disputable.
The way you can write this observation mathematically is as I did: ((1/3) × 3) + ((1/3) × 3) = ((2/6) × 6), or 1 + 1 = 2, after computing the fractions. The student's observation was perfectly correct, but he was missing the proper explanation, as it is not about the addition of fractions (it is almost a coincidence that the fractions used on one side of the equation happen to have the sum of their numerator and the sum of their denominators equal to the numerator and denominator of the fraction on the other side - this only happens because we are multiplying the fractions by their denominators).
Sure, you can express this in terms of units and dimensions of you really choose to. You can also express it in terms of different definitions of +, or even of =. It is pretty unnatural to me to invent an ad-hoc measurement unit N1, "number of people at 1 table" and a different measurement unit, N2, "number of people at 2 tables", with the relation 1N2 = 2N1, and then correct the student's formula to 1/3N1 + 1/3N1 = 2/6N2. It is correct, but it is extremely artificial to me.
By far the most natural way to explain it is using the correct mathematical interpretation of the phrase "one third of the 3 people" - (1/3) × 3.
Inventing measurement units to describe exact quantities reminds me of a silly joke from Portal: "computer: 2 + 2 = 10 <pause to wonder if the computer is broken> ... in base 4". You can always find a way to make the formula direct by adding assumptions.
The way you can write this observation mathematically is as I did: ((1/3) × 3) + ((1/3) × 3) = ((2/6) × 6), or 1 + 1 = 2, after computing the fractions. The student's observation was perfectly correct, but he was missing the proper explanation, as it is not about the addition of fractions (it is almost a coincidence that the fractions used on one side of the equation happen to have the sum of their numerator and the sum of their denominators equal to the numerator and denominator of the fraction on the other side - this only happens because we are multiplying the fractions by their denominators).
Sure, you can express this in terms of units and dimensions of you really choose to. You can also express it in terms of different definitions of +, or even of =. It is pretty unnatural to me to invent an ad-hoc measurement unit N1, "number of people at 1 table" and a different measurement unit, N2, "number of people at 2 tables", with the relation 1N2 = 2N1, and then correct the student's formula to 1/3N1 + 1/3N1 = 2/6N2. It is correct, but it is extremely artificial to me.
By far the most natural way to explain it is using the correct mathematical interpretation of the phrase "one third of the 3 people" - (1/3) × 3.
Inventing measurement units to describe exact quantities reminds me of a silly joke from Portal: "computer: 2 + 2 = 10 <pause to wonder if the computer is broken> ... in base 4". You can always find a way to make the formula direct by adding assumptions.