I mean, I'm glad you're taking this opportunity to do some soul searching, but the bottom line is that someone owes you money that they're not paying you.
If you were robbed in the street, would you be laying in bed worrying about whether you had a robbable face? Would you be trying to think how you could have been friendlier to your muggers?
I was more wanting to hear some feedback on my situation. It's a tough season for me and I want to make sure I'm learning the right things from it.
To perhaps gain some clarity as I don't have many people I feel comfortable talking to about this.
How it relates to the article, I feel. If the people you work with unfairly dislike you it might be a good sign of a problem deeper down.
(obviously a great deal of soul searching is needed to know if 'unfairly disliked' is applicable)