Hello HN,
I'm a long time lurker here and I won't ask this with my real username as some know my real id.
I would really appreciate your point of view on this.
Right now, I'm going through a rough patch in my life as I'm going through a divorce.
We have a boy of 7 and we'll be sharing custody so will spend equal time with both parents.
We spend together a lot of time and being available for him time wise and emotionally is my #1 priority right now.
My current job is really close to home but there is not much room for growth, promotions, it's a small and a bit too comfortable place.
I've been here for 5 years so I'm usually the go to guy.
The company is really relaxed so I choose my own tasks, schedule.
I can work from home whenever I want and the boss is really flexible and gives me tons of freedom and trust.
Salary is ok, at market level for my skills.
I've recently interviewed at another company - they do consulting - and they offered me a 20% hike working on
customer's site, 20-25 miles away from home ( Probably 30 minutes commute ).
No spectacular technologies but I'd grow and it would mean a step up career wise.
I hesitate because I don't want to add to the stress level right now a new job even if it comes with more money.
On the other side, I know I'd do well and it would keep me busy, I'd love a new work context and I could use a bit of extra money to increase my savings.
I'm productive at my work but I can see the other side of my life is impacting my focus and commitment.
I am hitting the gym, eating healthy and doing my best to stay in good health.
Would you go with the new job ?
Thank you
Also make sure you truly want to do consulting / agency type of work - it can be stressful and unstable when you need stability.
Good news is - it will get better once the new normal becomes normal. For now I say focus on gym and being healthy like you mentioned.