Problems usually tend to grow stronger as you look away and even if your escapism works, there will always be this looming black cloud in the back of your head.
The problem is, that over time you can grow so acustomed to this black cloud that you forget about it’s existance and your feel bad and worse and when everything becomes to much you face it. And only then you will realize how much you really suffered.
Life is short. Too short to fill it with distractions.
If your problems seem big, do it like a mountaineer: one step at a time. If you want to reach that summit in one step you will not even start the journey. Break your problem into managable pieces and try to change habits in away that helps you to take these steps.
Find help and talk to people about it, promise a good friend to come back to them after a month and tell them how you did (even if you fucked up).
The problem is, that over time you can grow so acustomed to this black cloud that you forget about it’s existance and your feel bad and worse and when everything becomes to much you face it. And only then you will realize how much you really suffered.
Life is short. Too short to fill it with distractions.
If your problems seem big, do it like a mountaineer: one step at a time. If you want to reach that summit in one step you will not even start the journey. Break your problem into managable pieces and try to change habits in away that helps you to take these steps.
Find help and talk to people about it, promise a good friend to come back to them after a month and tell them how you did (even if you fucked up).