The US is doing certain things that seem outrageous.
The US is supposedly an ally of my country.
China is not explicitly an ally (just a trade partner).
So if the US spies on us, that's scandalous but it significantly lowers the bar for what I expect our non-allies to do to us.
It's not whataboutism, it's a precedent by which all future actions are measured. I'm not discounting the news story, I'm asking whether this is just a news story that will be forgotten about in a few weeks or so, or whether this is a total shift in expectations like when we found out what the US was doing to its own allies.