How would a man feel if a male interview invited them to meet his wife and him, who are into polyamory or what not? I feel like the connotations are clear are inappropriate during an interview.
That question is not at all relevant to anything I have said in this thread, nor do you and I know in detail what exactly was said in that interview.
If you're just randomly asking my opinion, then I would say that any person who goes to an interview and is treated unprofessionally can be expected to feel bad.
At the same time, I have been invited to socialize outside of work by people who have unusual/unhealthy hobbies. It doesn't always mean they want me to join in those hobbies, and if I were pressured to do so, I would decline.
It's tough to draw conclusions about something when the only information we have is two paragraphs about one side of the story, and one sentence about the other side.
