erl ... would be more related to the actual size
Sack -> Sackerl (bag -> small bag) Wagen -> Wagerl (cart -> small cart)
Frau -> Fräulein (Woman -> Younger/Fragile woman (unmarried)) Wagen -> Wäglein (Cart -> smaller but also lesser cart)
erl ... would be more related to the actual size
lein ... would be more related to the inner size (sorry I can't frame this into words any better) edit: referring to the answer of pavel_lishin. Yes "qualitative" modifier was the word I am looking for.