I compared advantages of active vs passive person in that model - that holds true regardless of which gender is on which side.
I think there are three different datings - the one when you look for partner, the one where you seek temporary fun and then the one when you seek brag points/social status through trophy partner you don't really care about. These discussions tend to confuse them.
Men can brag Baku their sexual lives and even exaggerate it. Women have to do the opposite and be very secretive.
Perhaps it ties to the dynamic. Women are buyers. Men are sellers. Easy to spend $1000 to buy things, hard to earn $1000 to sell something.
Western dating is a totally different beast than other countries.