To accompany the current discussion about SV's housing frustrations- have you relocated to another city that has a substantial amount of tech jobs?
Preferably stories besides Seattle, Austin, or New York would be interesting- wondering if any Bay Area hackers have actually moved to Raleigh RTP, or any other secondary / tertiary tech hubs that don't get as much coverage.
- You can find dev centers for most of the big companies such as Google/FB/Twitter etc. but their sizes and requirements are much lesser than Bay area. They are mostly satellite offices, and operate as such.
- You can find quite a few startups, but again they are not as many as Bay area and not as established as well.
- Of course there is the financial sector, which has lots of jobs - but expect a big culture difference, its highly competitive and cutthroat.
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I am not aware of how expensive Bay area housing is - but you can find pretty good houses an hour from NYC at < 500-600K, which is pretty good. Same is true of rent - If you are willing to commute 45-75 minutes, you can find lots of good affordable options. Public transport is better than Bay area, that makes commute easier.
Last but not the least, NYC has a unique global feel which is unparalleled :)