Except "what is correct" is the whole point of the debate, so nobody knows which side is doing the former until everybody agrees, which they most certainly do not agree yet.
Mind you that to the other side, it looks to us like what you're doing is the former and not the latter (until some common ground is found).
Mind you that to the other side, it looks to us like what you're doing is the former and not the latter (until some common ground is found).