Yeah I feel you, the management overhead is a big pain for many people at the moment, ourselves included.
There's a couple of improvements to this coming in the next two months: 1) a new transport (QUIC) which has less overhead, 2) smarter connection handling which closes unneccessary connections earlier, 3) more efficient announcements of who-has-what.
There's a couple of improvements to this coming in the next two months: 1) a new transport (QUIC) which has less overhead, 2) smarter connection handling which closes unneccessary connections earlier, 3) more efficient announcements of who-has-what.