On: Before Straight and Gay: The discreet, disorienting passions of the Victorian era

[icebraining]

It's easier for some, harder for others: http://www.robot-hugs.com/cognitive-load/

[Glyptodon → icebraining]

If I follow, why do you think experiences like the linked lead to a core identity of "I am an X (or B or Q...)" instead of one of "people should not be treated this way/experience this/have to think about these things?"