Hi, I'm Nicolas, Surprise's author. Thanks for the feedback!
You're not the first person to tell me GPL may not be a good idea and to be fair I never really thought it would make such a difference. Appart from LGPL, what other license would you recommend?
Be aware that if you license your work under the BSD then someone else can take your work, change it, improve it, sell it — and never share his changes with you.
So Netflix could take your recommender system, use it to make millions and do nothing but mention you in a footnote somewhere on their website.
this is a library, and should have a library license, at least LGPLv3.