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> I also have a solid guess you've never experienced this environment.

Maybe there are worse environments that I have never experienced and where outright rudeness is the only answer, but as described I have experienced it and never had to resort to anything more than:

- keep moving at a firm pace

- avoid eye contact

- hold a hand up, palm outward, preemptively, as you move (I'm not a tourist, I work here)

- as a last resort, speak loudly and sternly in a local language without addressing anyone directly, "No, thank you," or "No!"

It's still rude, but I feel a far cry from defaulting to yelling obscenities and getting agitated.

As I said, maybe there are environments where that doesn't work, or maybe it just works for me. But defaulting to rudeness without even attempting to figure out the appropriate measure of sternness in a place where you are, for most intents and purposes, a guest, is poor form.

Yes, it is annoying, but nevertheless, you are in their country, and they are trying to make an honest (not counting the overpricing of their goods) living. If someone can't handle that, maybe they shouldn't have gone there.



>- keep moving at a firm pace

>- hold a hand up, palm outward, preemptively, as you move (I'm not a tourist, I work here)

What, push people out of the way?

And now that you've touched someone, they'll touch back...


I didn't mean stretch your arm out for pushing, just hold your hand up to create some extra space in front of your face and signal you have no interest and you're in a hurry. It also helps avoiding eye contact.




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