Have you read Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People"? The book is about to celebrate its 80th birthday, but the advice is truly timeless.
I've read it before though I suppose I need to read it again to internalize what he talks about. This is clearly a case where I did not properly consider the impacts of my actions in a social context.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influen...