You won't understand because you fall in that category.
But trust when it's said. You avoid certain challenges because of your race and sex and that is a given.
That said, that doesn't mean that you sailed through life on a magic carpet with things handed to you.
> that doesn't mean that you sailed through life on a magic carpet with things handed to you.
See, this is why people get frustrated when people tell them to check their privilege. White men are told all the time that they have life so easy, but almost never have their own frustrations or life experiences validated. I'm very grateful for everything I've had relatively easy in life (loving parents who never divorced and not worrying about having dinner each night, among others), but life still isn't easy, and it's frustrating feeling like there's nothing to complain about because of how you were born.
That said, that doesn't mean that you sailed through life on a magic carpet with things handed to you.