As a complete outsider, do you have a link or two to support that so I could learn more?
It would seem to me, again completely without knowledge, that a virtual DOM seems suboptimal. Web browsers should be able to optimize for that use case a lot better.
Pete Hunt's talk is good. https://youtu.be/x7cQ3mrcKaY?t=1112 I'd recommend watching the entire video if you have time, but that's the gist of it. More detail:
It is challenging to make a large app with lots of state be performant when you manually mutate the DOM, and there's no way for the browser to fix that because of the way things work.
For example, if you move an element, and then request the position of another element immediately after, the browser will be forced to recalculate layout before giving you an answer. With lots of state and lots of updates, it's very challenging to keep this in the right order.
As virtual DOM is an abstraction over the DOM, you can make a vanilla app that is much faster, but as your app grows, that quickly reverses.
Anyway, it's not a panacea. It can't do much if you're forcing a reflow every few milliseconds.