Would you mind sharing your CV? As an AI researcher with PhD in Europe, I am applying to multiple post-grad positions but can't even get interviews. And I'm not even talking about the big companies.
Author here, you can find more on my website: https://natolambert.com/cv
Have been building RLHF systems at HuggingFace since ChatGPT, with some other experience before.
Also work in deep learning for the last many years. We pay people well but the hype about truckloads of cash to researchers is overblown. Unless you happen to be exactly the skill set someone needs, there is a lot of talent.
I post this to say there is nothing wrong with you. You hear of the crazy successful few but not the majority of cases.
I am now in a similar situation you were before: I've never had a relationship, the last phone number of a girl I got was 2 years ago and it was a coworker, etc.
The original article suggests to learn how other people have already gotten the thing you want. So can you share the plan you followed that made you start attracting girls? Or can you share some resources you used to achieve that goal?
there's tons of stuff on the internet for this now. keep these two things in mind:
1. is what you've been doing for years, working? then don't keep doing it.
2. has asking advice from women, ever worked?
3. imagine you have always been poor, how do you think your social circle would react if you tried to get rich? if you actually achieve it?
think deeply about these things with an open mind.
talking about the fact that you can actually learn to be good with women is highly offensive to a huge portion of the population because you are turning that something that should be 'natural' into something that can be quantified and that deeply upsets some people. they really can't handle it mentally.
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