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Hi Gremlinsinc,
First of all, I'm impressed, you're a real fighter .
Everyone is different, so it's possible that my approach might not fit perfectly with what you need.
Usually, when I want to get through trauma, I stay occupied with activities that I love and give myself time (sometimes several years). I'm introverted, so I recharge my batteries by doing activities like running, learning a new language or skill, cooking, or cleaning. Once my batteries are recharged, I'm able to accept that I'm human and it's normal to experience these emotions.
My next step is similar to what you did in this message. If the trauma is too big, I share my thoughts and reflections with people I trust. When they share their thoughts, I only take what I think fits my situation.
For me, it takes time and effort to work through trauma. I stay patient, trust the process, and keep fighting. I love fighting .
I started learning guitar, and can play a bunch of songs.. (1 hour per day)...oddly I've been able to focus on that... everyday since April... It's very therapeutic as it makes me stop thinking so much.
Are you trying to convince the OP to end their life?
A high-functioning BPD sufferer can learn to be aware of behaviors that negatively impact others and minimize them. OP is likely an individual like that.
BPD is VERY manageable. Most of the time it's environmental and once you work through the childhood trauma it can almost disappear completely.
The op's post is dead, so I just wanted to chime in under yours to tell people it's not bad, and for me it's not that bad because I've got the harder to diagnose "silent" or high functioning brand.
Which is good and bad, I guess. Easier to treat, bad because it took me 44 years to figure out I had it.
Stop that. You are projecting the pain that you suffered at the hands of an abuser onto someone you have never met.
Dehumanizing someone who is seeing a therapist and seeking help online trying to seek help is both legitimately unhelpful, and also actively harms people in recovery by casting doubt on whether getting help will help them get better.
Abusers with BPD exist, abusers without BPD exist. Abusers are abusers, being diagnosed with BPD doesn't make you an abuser. People with BPD are, almost definitionally, people who've been abused or clinically neglected, and are likely to be abused in adulthood as well.
Finally, BPD is a set of symptoms, not a cause - for this reason, its a pretty contested diagnosis with a lot of stigma attached. Its often more accurate to think of it as a trauma disorder. 50% of people with BPD don't meet the clinical criteria (aka they don't have BPD) after 10 years in many studies - if it were truly an unchangeable thing, those numbers would not be possible.
As a newcomer in the SaaS industry, I took the time to create a mobile-friendly 1-Click WooCommerce solution with a pre-loaded product. The best part? It requires zero technical skills, it take no time and is entirely phone friendly.
Sometimes, it's better to do more with less, and this solution embodies that philosophy.
For those who are ever willing to try e-commerce it might be a quick solution.
More technical specifications:
It includes:
1-Product: Pre-imported and pre-sourced.
2-Astra Pro Theme: Includes Spectra Pro page builder and a Premium Starter Template library with over 250 site templates.
3-Domain and Hosting: All set up for you.
4- Educative Chrome Extension: Copy any Amazon or Shopify product directly, for free.
I came up with this idea as an answer to the question:
"What is e-commerce?"
Instead of explaining, why not just show it?
Thank you for your response. I feel like creating a solution to create "e-commerce stores in one click with pre-imported products" is kind of impossible.
I'm looking for a SaaS idea that's worth it. Do you think there are alternatives to this idea that could be interesting?