There's probably a way you could have expressed that without using such a loaded word of "whore" especially when allegations of sexism are in play. At least choose your words well. Adria is a prostitute because you disagree with her sensibility and judgement? I may not agree with her either but I'm not going to resort to name-calling. Be more mature.
You're doing what 100 other startups are trying to do right now, connecting like-minded people through activites, just to name a few: Spontacts, Woofound, spotvite, aka aki etc.
They have all failed because if you're trying to be everything for everybody, you just end up being nothing for no one.
We are not about connecting like-minded people. We are trying to help people solve their everyday problems....connecting people is a consequence of it.
It doesn't matter what you do beforehand, the goal is to connect them. I've built an entire app like this too and it's a great problem to solve, probably the greatest of all, however you will hit a wall in 2-3 months once you figure out that you can't market it and that you can't raise money from investors, because they have been pitched this 100 times before and they know the problems.
There is so much stuff in that video, that's what really hood investors are. The thing is, you can't be just between insane and genius, you have to be able to use either of the two just when it's the right time to use them.
Try to learn Android and you raise your market value multifold. I would however though learn a scripting language to have a complementary skill-set and put a framework on top of that. I'd recommend Ruby --> Ruby on Rails.
Android is built on Java so learning Android programming is as simple as learning the ins and outs of an Android program rather than a whole new language.
Android won't necessarily increase your market value more than Ruby but it will be a much easier thing to learn considering you already know Java.
Talking about penises is not sexist. Just wtf??