
Death to the 'noreply' mailbox - josscrowcroft
http://www.josscrowcroft.com/2011/random/death-to-the-noreply-mailbox/
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twakefield
"So I’ve given you my email address. I’ve given you the permission to contact
me directly, via the medium I check more than anything (nasty habit, I know.)
And this is how you repay me?"

Hear, hear. We've been preaching the same at Mailgun. A lot of companies pay
good money for affiliate lists, scrape web sites; basically do whatever it
takes to get emails for marketing/spam. Yet, here are companies with
permission to engage their users through email and they totally whiff. EVERY
email you send should be considered an opportunity to increase engagement with
your users. Tell them them that they can respond with questions, comments,
whatever. Grubwithus does a good job of this. They specifically say in the
body of the emails that you can provide feedback just by replying.

Email should be considered another interface into your application.

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muppetman
I know this is totally not the right place to ask this, but what's happened to
<http://bouncr.com/> ?

It just plain doesn't work now, you can't register new emails and the MX for
it (mailgun) doesn't accept mail for it.

But the website is still up.

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vog
_> I know this is totally not the right place to ask this, ..._

You might want to ask your question at a right place instead.

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muppetman
I've tried. I get crickets. I should have posted that in my comment.

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ethank
The no-reply email is like sending your error logs to /dev/null

THAT BEING SAID

I used to be responsible for 600 active websites, and when we switched to
using a help-desk system for auto-sent emails we broke things and had to go
back to no-reply.

Lesson learned for us: it's worse to give the appearance of attention if you
don't have the means to deliver on that promise.

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josscrowcroft
>> it's worse to give the appearance of attention if you don't have the means
to deliver on that promise.

Good call actually. In which case I think better to go with something like
what Wufoo does, I believe theirs is something like "friendlyrobot" and if you
reply to it, it sends you a friendly message explaining that nobody checks
that mailbox, but there is a support desk they can contact. FTW.

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glhaynes
Would be better if they didn't go to that trouble and just forwarded it on.

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blasdel
It's acting as a captcha — otherwise they'd have to deal with a shitton of
automated replies and bounces from the customers and their crappy mailservers

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Cushman
Surely it's the job description of customer service to deal with hassles in
order to make users' lives easier?

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eftpotrm
OK, so set up a filtration system. If you're good enough to build a system
capable of running at that level you should be able to set up some basic mail
filters or even a more complex bayesian filter to knock out at least bounces
and probably a good percentage of autoreplies too.

Removing noise from a system isn't a job where it's perfect or useless; a
substantial reduction is often quite good enough.

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politician
I don't see why it's necessary to make this complicated: "friendlyrobot" _is_
the filtration system. As you said, it doesn't need to be perfect to be
useful.

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neilrahilly
I thought sending notifications from help@atomiccontacts.com and ending them
with 'Any problems, just reply to this email!' was a good idea too.

However, I've had to introduce noreply for a lot of transactional emails for a
reason I didn't expect.

If you send an email like:

    
    
        Subject: X has requested you become friends/posted a photo/tagged you/sent you a message
    

...even if you mention that replying to the email will come to you, not X,
many users will instinctively reply. E.g.,

    
    
        Hey X, So glad you got in touch. Love the picture. Want to grab a coffee soon?
    

Then you feel bad that you're intercepting personal emails.

I switched to noreply and put a help email link in the signature (which is
ridiculed as the height of too muchery in the article).

If anyone's got a better solution, I'd love to hear it.

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phillco
Do as Facebook (or GitHub) does - make replying to the e-mail reply to the
person.

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neilrahilly
That's what we do, using the Reply-to header, in case people hit reply. But
the From header (which is what users see) still has to be one of ours. This is
a requirement of SendGrid, AWS SES, etc., and it'd look pretty spammy
otherwise.

Also, I just checked the latest notification I received from Facebook (someone
posted on my wall) and its headers were

    
    
        From: "Facebook" <notifications+{code}@facebookmail.com>
        Reply-to: noreply <noreply@facebookmail.com>

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eli
It's a requirement of US law, in fact.

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oskee80
I consider the no-reply address a courtesy to me to know that I won't end up
writing a reply to an address that isn't monitored. Things like bank
notifications and alerts are designed to be one-way communications, so the no-
reply address makes sense. Usually the body or footer of the message contains
the proper contact methods/addresses. It does not hurt my feelings to have to
click on an email address within the message vs. clicking the 'reply' button
in my client.

That being said, I agree that a no-reply address sends the wrong message for
start-ups, welcome messages, signup confirmations, etc. I think they are good
for recurring message that are inherently one-way, and when the user knows the
preferred contact info for the company.

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glhaynes
But any email they send out could be set up to reply right to somebody
appropriate. Customers don't want a face of the company that only speaks and
doesn't listen. Seems like they should be nearly never needed.

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oskee80
True, if it is a relatively small support operation. This would be harder to
do with larger companies that had separate addresses for billing questions,
service problems, troubleshooting, etc. If every outbound message had a
singular live reply-to email address, then you'd need someone to sift through
all those and route to the appropriate department.

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digikata
Large companies should dedicate the thought and resources to get their
customer human interface right. I hate that many large companies that expect
customers to navigate through a morass of the companies half-baked
organizational scheme. It's a terrible sign if a company expects a customer to
coordinate or route an issue among different internal company departments.

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pbreit
I was head of support for a good size startup and we set all of our reply-tos
to go into our support system. There was not much junk (thanks Gmail) but lots
of autoresponders. But it's totally manageable. I set up some hairy Gmail
filters to try to weed out the autoresponders (would be nice if Gmail could
help out more here).

My email account was also the "catch all" and even that wasn't too bad. And
some good email comes in.

The thing that is astounding is that these companies otherwise spend millions
of dollars to try to talk to these very same customers. Unbelievable.

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joelhaasnoot
This is my strategy. I almost missed some important client email by not
checking noreply often enough, so our noreply now gets forwarded to those
responsible for customer service and following up with customers. So far, very
few delivery failures, and a few autoresponders. Autoresponders are important
messages too however: if we send a booking notification to someone, and
they're on vacation, we know we need to contact someone else in the company.

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yaix
Nope.

noreply is for all the auto responders to not litter your inbox. At the end or
beginning of the email is the contact address. A human responder clicks it and
replies.

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evanhamilton
I agree 1080% about letting your customers easily contact you. That said, I
think you completely missed why this terrible practice came about:

1) When dealing with a lot of automated emails, you get a lot of automated
responses like out-of-office messages and failure notices (I know others have
mentioned this). 2) Many companies have a support process that doesn't take
place in email, because email doesn't scale very well.

So rather than just open up your inbox to thousands of junk messages and
customer inquiries that you lose in the shuffle, I'd amend your call to
action:

Get rid of the no-reply. Set a reply-to that goes into your support ticket
system (you have one, right?). Set up rules/filters to automatically get rid
of the auto-cruft and route responses to different mailings to the right
place.

With that addition, I say: hear hear! Commit to listening to your customers
and banish the reply-to! I know our team is going to after reading this.

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josscrowcroft
Good points, and I like the amended CTA. I've added your comment to the end of
the post.

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jwilliams
Couldn't agree with this more. A big part of putting a service out there is
getting in touch with your users and potential users.

If a user wants to engage/communicate with you, then you should be making it
as easy as possible (Generally true, but particularly for an early-stage
startup). The noreply seems brain-dead in this light.

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moeffju
Can't you solve the autoresponder problem by setting the correct Envelope
headers? Bounces and automatic responders would go to noreply, actual people
pressing reply would each you. Our am I too naive in assuming reasonably well-
written autoresponders that know the RfC..?

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joshu
Unfortunately, lots of people have vacation responders or autoresponders
saying you have to click on a URL to get delivered...

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nknight
Most autoresponders send highly predictable responses that can be reliably
filtered on.

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bschlinker
And when that filtering fails, causing an email to be filtered out as an auto-
response even when it was written by a "real person"? What happens then?

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pbreit
1) This is rare but unfortunate. 2) Autoresponders are almost totally useless
these days. 3) If this was handled like spam (at last by Google), it probably
would not be a problem.

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EiZei
I think the worst example I have come across of this is my employers e-invoice
operator's support email address they use to dispatch error messages from. The
error messages (which tend to be fairly huge) have a small disclaimer saying
that they wont answer any emails and that you must call a support number that
costs almost two Euros a minute. The worst bit however is that the address
itself is support@einvoiceoperatorsname.com, how much do they hate their
customers?

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eli
I used to monitor the reply address for a newsletter list with ~250,000 people
on it. At this scale, a simple filter on "out of office" in the subject line
really doesn't cut it.

To do it right, it's easily a full time job (and not a very fun one).
"Noreply" addresses are bad for customers, but that doesn't mean they're
always the wrong choice. As others have mentioned, it's better to bounce a
reply than to accept it but not dedicate the resources to deal with it
efficiently.

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pornel
I used to work for a company that fed all replies to a custom CRM system which
filtered out of office and bounces (unsubscribing on hard bounces
automatically) and it worked great!

Those are enquiries from your (potential) customers. That's what you have
support & sales people for!

It's strange that there are companies paying fortune to funnel people from
AdWords to their sales enquiry form, but refuse to look at enquiries via
e-mail.

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ZoFreX
> Some people have pointed out (fairly) that by not using noreply, you open
> yourself up to autoresponders and delivery failure notices. My response to
> that would be to go with an email address like friendlyrobot, which, when
> somebody replies to it, replies with a friendly helpful message explaining
> that nobody checks this address, and offering other addresses to contact.

Does this not run the risk of ending up in a loop?

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mkolodny
I generally read 'noreply' as, "Here is something useful. And, we're not
asking you for anything in return."

'noreply's are usually something you chose to receive. They're a service.

That's not to say that feedback should be discouraged. Just that, unlike the
great majority of startup email, something is being given instead of
requested.

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lobster_johnson
I disagree with the logical premise of this article, at least for our specific
case (social networking app sending notifications about activity). We most
certainly _don't_ want replies. The sender of the emails is not us, our
company, but the application itself. When a calendar app on your smartphone
reminds you of a meeting, there's no "Reply" button because having one simply
doesn't make sense.

The fact that email is a system where it's implied that anything is replyable
is unfortunate. Email is currently the best option for sending out
notifications on the Internet, since most people don't know about feeds or how
to use them. If there were a better, equally established technology for one-
way notifications, we would use it. (We use SMS messaging, too, but only when
it makes sense, since it's pretty invasive.)

Anyway, we did try to kill the no-reply behaviour at one point. Sounded good
on paper, but it was impossible to execute in practice. Some issues, off the
top of my head:

* We got a ton of vacation autoresponses, in all sorts of languages and all sorts of phrasings. It would be too time-consuming to set up rules to deal with all of the variations.

* We got an onslaught of replies accusing us of spamming them. These were users of our site, remember; a lot of sign up to an app and then promptly forget that they were now members. They never read the actual email, which has a very visible footer explaining how to disable notifications.

* A lot of confused users replied to the emails, either to thank us for the notification (not useful), or intended as a reply to a specific user, such as in the case of "new comment" notifications.

Sure, in some cases (like comment follow-ups) we could automatically process
the rely. However, I'm really skeptical about our ability to handle email
formatting well, though. Things like quoting, HTML, "On June 12th, John Doe
wrote:" headers (which often are not in English) and signatures must be
stripped, and I could not find an existing library that would do this
reliably.

Maybe if you are Facebook or Google you can spend the necessary manpower to
deal with the technical challenges, but we can't; our company is small enough
that we can't even afford the resources necessary to screen replies manually.

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freejack
I hate noreply as well, at least as it relates to paying customers. At Hover,
we switched to a policy of using help@hover.com for the default reply-to on
all mailers and it works quite well. Zendesk and our mail system do a great
job of filtering out the automated messages and bounce backs and a human being
gets the rest. The remainder are usually full of opportunity for us. Consider
this Startups - every time you use no reply, you are throwing away an
opportunity to solidify a relationship with a customer or potential customer.

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FaceKicker
> Hey asshole, what if I want to reply?

> What’s that? You don’t want crazies emailing you? You’re worried about spam?

Based on these lines, it seems like you're misunderstanding what "noreply@"
means... They're not saying it's against the "rules" to reply, they're just
saying nobody is monitoring the mailbox so it would be a waste of your time to
do so. It's almost a courtesy, really...

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2arrs2ells
You missed the point. The article is arguing that companies should put a
monitored mailbox as the default reply-to, and not use unmonitored mailboxes,
as they are missing out on valuable feedback and interactions.

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stock_toaster
I think for things where feedback is warranted, sure. But for automated email
sending, alerts, notifications, things which may have very high bounce rates,
using a real mailbox is basically spamming yourself or your support team.

I tend to use 'automated@' or 'a.robot@' though, to reflect that it was sent
on behave of a process.

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nodata
But you won't know whether feedback is warranted. You don't get to decide -
the user does.

As an example, yesterday I got an e-mail where a template variable hadn't been
expanded. noreply means they don't get to find out. It's worth my time
replying to an e-mail. It's not worth finding a contact form and filling it
out.

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pornel
If you don't want to deal with e-mails as such and prefer that people contact
you via a web form (hooked to some CRM), then add this to /etc/aliases:

    
    
         yes-reply "|/your/script/that/reads/email"
    

It will pipe incoming emails straight to a script that can decode and file
them appropriately.

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taybenlor
Over at <http://halftoneapp.com> we use speak@halftoneapp.com

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dools
When it works ;)

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Shabby_Chic
I hate seeing that evil no-reply email address. Completely agree that if
companies want to better understand their customers, they need to leave the
communication door open and allow candid responses to freely flow.

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se1sm
How many legit businesses would not include a return postal address on their
snail mail? Why do people expect customers to go to their home page and look
for a contact form? Joss has a point.

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T-hawk
How many postal mailboxes do you know that trigger automated out-of-office
responses and all the other noise?

Bounces do happen in postal mail, but 1) the PO usually has the option to
discard marketing mail instead of bouncing it, and 2) the sender has a much
higher incentive in wasted postage cost to avoid bounces in postal mail, as
compared to an email bounce of a few packets.

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Limes102
I have a tiny company, and any automated emails always have written at the
bottom "If you have any questions, simply reply to this email"

People are always slightly surprised by it, in a good way.

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Sym3tri
What's funny is that many of these same companies will later spam users with
surveys to illicit feedback.

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jorgeortiz85
I hope you're volunteering for Facebook to use your email as their return
address on everything.

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BrandonM
Facebook already maps replies to meaningful responses in many cases.

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jorgeortiz85
Even if it were just the emails where they don't already map to a meaningful
response...

With N million users, odds are high that at least N thousand of them: are
irrational, just need someone to talk to, can't express themselves in writing,
think you're their new pen pal, find you attractive (even if they've never
seen you) and just want to meet you, etc.

I know that as users and customers we all want to be treated as beautiful and
unique snowflakes. But a service of any scale will have many thousands (or
more) of users that are just completely batshit crazy.

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dreww
I don't understand why this has become a trendy pet peeve to have now, at
least 5 years after email ceased to be a relevant form of communication. If
you care about email, you've already lost.

Overuse of automated out-of-office respondes does far more damage to the
medium.

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chaz
I get and send dozens of important emails a day. Why is email irrelevant?

 _"A May 2011 Pew Internet survey finds that 92% of online adults use search
engines to find information on the Web, including 59% who do so on a typical
day. This places search at the top of the list of most popular online
activities among U.S. adults. But it is not alone at the top. Among online
adults, 92% use email, with 61% using it on an average day."_

Source: Search and email still top the list of most popular online activities
([http://pewinternet.org/Reports/2011/Search-and-
email/Report....](http://pewinternet.org/Reports/2011/Search-and-
email/Report.aspx))

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pyre
...But me and all my (hipster|geeky|20-something) friends only communicate
using a combination of Facebook, Twitter, and SMS! If it's not relevant within
my inner circle of friends, then 'anyone who's anyone' doesn't care about it!

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dreww
i hear what you're saying. however, i think it goes beyond that - the
phenomenon of people's parents using facebook is widespread.

email, in a non-work context, has become a communications channel for low-
value broadcast messages.

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oh_no_my_eyes
jesus. get a grip. its a stupid bot email. if thats the only way you can
communicate with your users is through their hitting reply to an obvious no-
reply email then you've got other problems.

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d2
Hey. Genius. Some of us send over a million emails a week as a free service to
users who are happy to hear from us. We just can't afford to check the damn
inbox for that many people, so noreply makes it clear. Don't fucking reply
because if we had to pay an agony auntie on the other end to feel your pain,
the service wouldn't be free.

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vog
_> Some of us send over a million emails a week as a free service to users who
are happy to hear from us._

I find that very hard to believe, but probably I'm just missing the point.
What kind of service are you talking about?

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beaumartinez
Facebook? Reddit? StackOverflow? There are more than enough free high-volume-
email services.

