For the longest time I've always just tried to "say the right thing/what agrees with the crowd". I have this self-checking/insecure trait like "oh no someone down voted me". I need to be wrong so I can learn/get other viewpoints.
Granted I am not saying that gives me free reign to be mean or attack people. Doesn't help I'm not easily doxxable here, not using this to network, I'm aware this is not a "reddit".
I have my mindset on something, I would like to get it checked usually related to technology.