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The beautiful thing about being an early bird is you don't need to "show up too early". You just hang out until you're exactly on time and then show up. There is no analogue for the late person.

Anyone claiming more concern about being thrown into an oncoming train than being in a serious car accident is either being disingenuous or deluded. The solution isn't to just excuse it because they feel in control. The solution is to solve their delusions.

> Do people who are habitually late view prompt people as rude for being on time?

As someone who tries to be prompt to a fault, I can see that yes there are people who get annoyed at promptness. It's not that you're a bad person for being prompt. Rather you're a bad person if you start without them or otherwise push back on their lateness.


I think to some extent some of the pushback is the prompt folks not understanding that sometimes lateness isn’t something they can control (e.g., meeting with important set of stakeholders that you can’t duck out on early ran late)

There are unavoidable life obstacles, but some people are always late to everything.

Yea, I meant the habitually late.

I think people on both sides need to have more empathy, then. I'm generally one of the prompt people, and I'll try to start on time. If people are late, they'll arrive after we start, but that's fine.

And the late people need to understand that sometimes they will miss the beginnings of things, but that's ok too; their inability to be on time (for whatever reason) should not waste the time of those who get there on time.


My experience is that when you have habitually late people will enter a meeting after you start, their first question is, "what did I miss?"

So then you waste even more time when someone recaps for them.

It's almost like people need to think about their day when they're scheduling things instead of just accepting every single meeting.

You can request different times for things. That's an option.


Yes. And even as someone who tries to live by the ethos "if you're on time, you're late", I wind up late sometimes. It stresses me out, but hey sometimes shit happens.

But there are people where shit seems to happen more than for others. Late once in a blue moon? No worries. Repeat offender? That's a you problem.


If you only need an occasional car then rental cars aren’t a bad deal. For somewhat more frequent needs there’s stuff like zipcar and turo

What you say is true, but it is also possible that someone describing the flavor as "sour" isn't experienced enough to have built up the official vocabulary. You see this a lot in tasting cultures of various products, what one person means by X isn't necessarily the same as another person.

Where I live, Dunkin Donuts is king. All one needs to do is stand in line behind the average patron ordering a coffee with 8 creams and 10 sugars to identify "coffee for people who don't life coffee".

Or take a gander at any Starbucks ad pushing their latest dessert for breakfast drink offering.


hey, sometimes you just need an OrangeMoccaFrappacino

Jitterbug

> They only had a few hundred MAUs

Way too many companies believe they're really just temporarily embarrassed BigTech.


Bad software dev. degrees that focus on fancy architecture that brings nothing to the table except overhead.

I don't think I learned basically anything about "fancy architecture" from my undergraduate courses except, ironically, reasoning about coupling and overhead.

I don't remember one solitary lecture on CI/CD, microservices, or even just deployment in general, in Uni. The closest that our comp. sci. classes ever came to touching on anything but the code itself was making us use SVN.

The difference between a software dev degree and a comp. sci degree.

I've never heard of or seen a Software Development bachelors degree?

I've seen Information Systems programs, that are usually CE, after-hours tracks. Neither Harvard, Yale, nor MIT have a software dev one, just Comp. Sci. I'm calling BS (no pun intended) on "software dev degrees" as a thing distinct from CS in any widespread fashion.

https://www.harvard.edu/programs/

https://admissions.yale.edu/majors-and-academic-programs

https://facts.mit.edu/degrees-majors/


Also alternatives like VSCode have garbage for a debugging & profiling workflow compared to Jetbrains.

antibiotic resistance is such that it is increasingly less common to use it as just a "take 2 of these and call me in the morning" shot in the dark treatment.

If the symptoms are a sore throat, yes. If they're going blind, we can take a chance with antibiotics.

> He paid $14k for the movers. That would buy a fair bit of new furniture unless it’s really high end.

Not really? Furniture is expensive. Once you move out of the garbage tier, that's not a whole lot of stuff.


Heck, even at the low end of not-garbage, a couch runs in the $1k range. Something from Bobs Furniture Outlet, for example.

Note, I love Bob's furniture. I have a couch from there I bought 10 years ago and it's absolutely the most comfortable couch I've ever had. My comment that they're low end is not, in any way, to insult the quality of what they have. Rather, they're not expensive (the same couch at a slightly more "name brand" place would have been twice the cost; for no increase in quality).


A sectional at ikea can run several thousand dollars.

Which is all labor and logistics. Pile of crap.

All sofas have labor and logistics. The more expensive ikea couches are as good as other big box couches, which is to say, they aren’t premium furniture.

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