Sure, if you have no context; Friend and I are totally aligned on what we think of the current state of the int environment is.
We work in tech. We share same aversions to certain activities.
He's talented IT guy, companies interested; had offer from several SV bigco's - had offer from this company as well, which we talked about in depth. He ended up making a different choice - and then later I had told him what I stated in my OP; the context and the parties between which this conversation happened; it was funny.
The core of the sentiment though is not: I personally am against companies which built their core business on supporting the surveillance state.
A lot more can be said on that topic; debates over proper use of tech, where lines are drawn, define core business, these problems apply to all industries, etc.
But the fact remains that there are companies who services are more greatly leveraged by the surveillance state. This company is one of them. I don't support them.
First, the idea that the "you're dead to me thing" was just a funny joke is disingenuous. Your meaning was plain.
Second, if this person is actually your friend, and not, I don't know, some kind of minion, you'll respect that they have their own brain and their own moral compass and they're capable of making their own judgements. Maybe you'll even be comforted by the fact that you'll occasionally disagree, as those events validate the notion that we have free will and are not simply deterministically arriving at the same conclusions from the same stimuli.
We're dragging this out a bit now. Obviously, I don't believe that you'd cut off your friend because they made a career decision you didn't approve of.
I'll be in SFBA the week of the 18th. Happy to buy you a beer.
(Among the users whose comments I read religiously is 'pg, in whose tag cloud the largest words would be "PLEASE" and "STOP" and "THIS", and I sort of live in fear of triggering one of those comments myself, so, "uncle" or whatever it takes to end this thread).