For as much as things are easier today, what non-programmers consider acceptable ("the bar," if you will) has been raised more. The idea of full-time user experience people in the 1980s would have been ridiculous. Today we have "front end engineers" who are mainly there to inform and realize the interactions designed by full-time user experience people. For a significant amount of time, networking meant network filesystems and email. Today it means multi-million lines of code browsers running thousands to hundreds of thousands of lines of front-end code with just as much or more in the backend.
Programmers before us did more with less, true. But they also were more willing to accept compromises. I think things would probably be a lot better today if people's expectations were lower. But Plan 9 and Haiku are evidence that people actually care quite a bit more about usability than stability. It's a bummer. But I'm glad we enthusiasts can at least continue these traditions outside the mainstream.
And people using all of that to call everything beyond email 'bloated' because...
Actually, I don't know why. One wonders if they also call a Ferrari bloated because of the Model-T.
On the one hand, both a Ferrari and a Model-T are really fundamentally about getting you from point A to point B. The majority of the progress between the Model-T and the Ferrari have to do with unnecessary optimization (going bazillion miles per hour) and tangental/incidental value-adds (being red, having air conditioning, etc.)
On the other hand, an inablity to discern qualitative differences is exactly why every discussion about Apple on Slashdot turns into "My Rio did everything the iPod did and more! It isn't fair! Wake up sheeple!" Maybe everything we do with Google Plus we could have done with email in the 80s, but does it matter if all the end user wanted to be able to do is put their signature in lilac Comic Sans?
Where we are today (in any field, on any topic) is a mixture of good decisions, practical solutions and random selections. Every pundit (and everyone on HN is a pundit) thinks they know which things arose intentionally and which things were just noise. I hesitatingly suggest that a large portion of the intentional arose from the desire for good looking stuff. I double-plus hesitatingly suggest that an alternate world in which Plan 9's view (everything is a filesystem, every user is command-line fluent) or in which Smalltalk's view (every user is a programmer, everything is live and can be live-debugged) would be interesting and offer certain benefits. Nobody will ever really know what that alternate world would be like—besides that it would probably look like absolute shit—and I think it's unfortunate, in the bittersweet way that unrealized potentials always are.
But I take heart knowing that at least in this world, with very few exceptions, technologies can become marginalized but they can't really be killed anymore.