I've seen a number of comments characterizing homebrew, the package manager, as bad but it was usually in an offhand way.
The most annoying thing I've come across recently is that one can't downgrade to an old version (unless there's a specific formula). Htop 3.4. shows CPU usage 40x too small (on macOS) and to fix that I can't use brew.
These days I use pkgin, which I like fine. Can't think offhand of when something I wanted wasn't available there. My impression is that homebrew has many more packages available, but apparently not any that I want.