For years, I had cable internet and purchased my own modem to use along with my own router, main reason being I don't trust my ISP to handle my personal information with discretion and I'd like to limit my dependence on their hardware as much as possible.
Now I've moved and I have fiber, which is great, except it seems I have to rely entirely on the fiber equivalent of a "modem," which I believe is the "ONT."
My question is: why? Why was / is there a fairly well-developed market for modems where consumers can choose their own hardware, whereas for fiber there is almost no market for ONTs? Is it for a technical reason? Or do ISPs want to be able to get cheaply manufactured ONTs and pass along "rental fees" to consumers?
In some countries (Germany) it's super easy, because there are laws forcing the ISPs to allow customer provided equipment, while in other countries you need to do some hackery with spoofing serial numbers and such of the original modem. People even make utilities to scrape that information via the administrative interface, and make the process semi-automated: https://github.com/StephanGR/GO-BOX
The biggest problem for me about the ISP routers is their sheer size, they probably make them big so that they seem "powerful" to the average person and he chooses that ISP believing that their router provides superior Wi-Fi. New apartments built here (in Poland) even have nice boxes with the incoming fiber and an electrical socket where you are supposed to hide your Router, but the shoebox-sized devices don't fit there and you have to put them on the floor, or somewhere else. I myself have bought a SFP+ GPON (LEOX LXT-010S-H) transceiver, which is the smallest form-factor you can get. It goes inside my Banana-Pi R3 router, together with an LTE modem for backup connectivity. And this setup is still smaller than the box provided by my ISP, which only served as a bridge between GPON and my router.