The analogy does fit. You're just mischaracterizing it. To continue on with your example, that's not what happened with 23andMe. If you gave your son access to your checking account via some account info sharing feature and someone gets access to his account, they have access to the same accounts he does and only those. Your business partner's info is safe unless he also shared his account with your son and his parents' info is safe unless they also shared with him.
The only info that was available form the 7 million accounts was specific info that they chose to share with the other account. If they chose to share everything, then everything would be available. 23andMe can't prevent their users from being idiots.
The only info that was available form the 7 million accounts was specific info that they chose to share with the other account. If they chose to share everything, then everything would be available. 23andMe can't prevent their users from being idiots.