Well what version of OSX are you using to make your comparison? SP3 to 10.8? Either way, there isn't some nebulous security gap between OSX and Windows, vulnerabilities exist in all systems and a responsible vendor patches them when they're discovered.
Please show me how to remotely compromise an up to date SP3 machine. Yes, there are exploits that exist at points in time, but the same is true of OSX, just google "OSX exploit".
malware is still not a part of day-to-day life with Macs to anywhere near the extent it is with Windows
All that proves is that there is more malware targeting Windows, it speaks nothing to the inherent security of the system since malware can't install itself.
Couldn't disagree with you more.