If anybody has had such a story, feel free to message me and we can talk about it. I won’t claim that this is always the case, but the interpretation that it is opening up and showing vulnerability that is causing a loss of attraction is almost always a misinterpretation. And a very dangerous one at that, because it prevents learning and solidifies the very problem that caused the relationship breakdown in the first place.
It just seems rare that women can maintain attraction after seeing a man be weak and vulnerable.