> as always I came to regret my whining when the other side replies in person
The trick is to avoid approaching communication that way in the fist place.
I see here the same pattern that creates haters: you start by idealizing X a too much and end up excessively frustrated when you come in disagreement with one specific decision, making you explode in exaggerated outbursts that are obviously not be well accepted by the other party.
In all honesty we don't need this kind of behavior, and on your side you need to let go and be more dispassionate on the subject before you can have an honest discussion about it.
Idealize things less, hate them less, stop making things part of your identity.
Reach out once you've figured that out, I'm sure people in the Zig community will be happy to explain to you the good and bad things about Zig's approach to strings.
The trick is to avoid approaching communication that way in the fist place.
I see here the same pattern that creates haters: you start by idealizing X a too much and end up excessively frustrated when you come in disagreement with one specific decision, making you explode in exaggerated outbursts that are obviously not be well accepted by the other party.
In all honesty we don't need this kind of behavior, and on your side you need to let go and be more dispassionate on the subject before you can have an honest discussion about it.
Idealize things less, hate them less, stop making things part of your identity.
Reach out once you've figured that out, I'm sure people in the Zig community will be happy to explain to you the good and bad things about Zig's approach to strings.