In any case, this is entirely irrelevant to the discussion at hand. You can absolutely use /dev/urandom to make a one-shot crypto key. You shouldn't wire /dev/urandom up into an online cryptosystem (don't use it to produce DH parameters, for instance), but even then, urandom isn't going to be how your system really gets broken.
In your case, experimenting with encrypting whole files with RSA instead of using RSA to exchange keys is what's really going to break your system. This is almost a decent example of how people obsess over the wrong things in cryptosystem design, and why perhaps generalist programmers should stay far, far away from this stuff.
Could I adjust that to say "generalist programmers should stay at least enough in touch with this stuff to know how badly they'll screw it up on their own"?
I've had _many_ heated discussions with inexperienced devs who don't understand just how much you need to know (and how much you need to know that you don't know) before you can start ignoring the simple advice "SSL for data on the move, GPG for data at rest".
There have been many attacks based upon vulnerabilities which exist due to misunderstandings entropy, and the need for a secure random number generator, for example the mozilla ssl vulnerability and the debian ssh key vulnerability.
I would agree with you that /dev/urandom can be used for one shot passwords, however I would disagree with you that getting in to the habit of using a non secure random number generator as a source of secure entropy is a bad idea and should be discouraged.
I'd also like to point out that "the standard openssl RSA encryption function" last time I checked worked to spec, and does in fact encrypt a symetric key used for AES (By default), using RSA, including proper cryptographic padding of the key using PKCS#1.
I'm not exactly sure why you thought otherwise.
I do agree with your final assertion, though. Unless you know what you're doing, it's very easy to make a mistake.