Here's (his version of) the tl;dr answer:
> "Help me, please, I think I'm a narcissist. What do I do?"
> There are a hundred correct answers, yet all of them useless, all of them will fail precisely because you want to hear them.
> There's only one that's universally effective, I've said it before and no one liked it. This is step 1: fake it.
> You'll say: but this isn't a treatment, this doesn't make a real change in me, this isn't going to make me less of a narcissist if I'm faking!
> All of those answers are the narcissism talking. All of those answers miss the point: your treatment isn't for you, it's for everyone else.
> If you do not understand this, repeat step 1.
Here's (his version of) the tl;dr answer:
> "Help me, please, I think I'm a narcissist. What do I do?"
> There are a hundred correct answers, yet all of them useless, all of them will fail precisely because you want to hear them.
> There's only one that's universally effective, I've said it before and no one liked it. This is step 1: fake it.
> You'll say: but this isn't a treatment, this doesn't make a real change in me, this isn't going to make me less of a narcissist if I'm faking!
> All of those answers are the narcissism talking. All of those answers miss the point: your treatment isn't for you, it's for everyone else.
> If you do not understand this, repeat step 1.