> The source is basically all I did for the last five years was work and chase women in major cities. I’ve seen it all
Maybe it's you.
As to why incels think they're not getting laid: people are very good at lying to themselves, and rarely have the strength or honesty to face negative aspects of their own personalities. It's much easier to lash out at others and blame them for problems of one's own making.
This is seen again and again in all sorts of abusers. Self-identified incels are just a new version of this.
This is borderline misandrist nonsense. Whether men or women explicitly rate members of the other sex on a scale in private doesn't change that
1. Males and females both have preferences which in aggregate assign some uneven value and therefore rank to potential mates
2. Beauty standards may vary by individual but you simply cannot deny that there are universal traits that make ratings between individuals rather consistent.