The point has been made before that the problem is most people don't have large hands (especially the quite small people in the rest of the world) - and they have already had to get used to using two hands, so for them - the size increases are a non-change. It's only us giant-handed people that are now hitting this change. But we're not most consumers.
DISCLOSURE: I'm a long-fingered former SE user who recently upgraded to an XR.
DISCLOSURE: I'm a long-fingered former SE user who recently upgraded to an XR.