You can both want him to face charges for rape, and also not want him to be extradited to the US.
The lack of regard for a rape case against him (mostly by male commenters, it has to be said) is very troubling.
Apparently those charges were dropped?
> The investigation into the allegation of rape, as of 19 May 2017, has been dropped by Swedish authorities.
Dismissing this act reflects poorly upon you, though.
The issue isn't birth control (alone), but foremost corporeal autonomy (the woman didn't want him to have "naked" sex, while in your example the man wanted to) and to a lesser extent the health risk.
So not taking the pill is not even close to the question of sleeping without a condom.
No, it wasn't.
If I consent to sell you my minivan, and you take my Lambo instead, that's theft even if I did consent to sell you a car.