On the other hand, who I am has little or nothing to do with how I can help you, and I want to keep it that way, for now. I know that this might seem foolish, but there are compelling, practical reasons behind it.
I request anyone reading this not to breach my privacy. I've made that offer in good faith and it would be heart breaking to face something like that.
It's a great offer, btw. I'd feel way too guilty for her like that though.
edit: no worries. That's a side effect of anonymity.