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> It might open people's eyes to some of the hypocrisy in the current public dialogue, just one of many issues being that the same action (wearing revealing clothing) is considered just fine and don't you dare even question it you victim-blamer when committed by one gender, and sexual assault when committed by another. Oh and by the way, "all we want is to be treated equally'.

I'm not seeing apples for apples in your argument - it'd be valid to say the popular female opinion (whatever that is) is hypocritical if their stance was that men couldn't wear revealing clothing, but you're making the point that they're hypocrites for wearing provocative clothing and then being upset if they're treated indecently or worse. You could argue their exhibitionism is inappropriate, but that is subjective, shaped by culture, and entirely different to saying their position is hypocritical.

If I'm rich and wave my money as I walk down the street, it's still a crime to rob me even if you feel as though I was asking for it.




> I'm not seeing apples for apples in your argument - it'd be valid to say the popular female opinion (whatever that is) is hypocritical if their stance was that men couldn't wear revealing clothing

Isn't that their stance? If a man went out in public with 1/3 of the flesh of his penis showing, everyone would be cool with it? The reality is, he'd be arrested for indecent exposure. In this case, the equivalent of what women do on a regular basis is quite literally illegal.

> but you're making the point that they're hypocrites for wearing provocative clothing and then being upset if they're treated indecently or worse

No I'm not.

> If I'm rich and wave my money as I walk down the street, it's still a crime to rob me even if you feel as though I was asking for it.

I'm not saying otherwise.

This conversation is actually not a terrible example of my overall point.


It's not very obvious, to me at least, what your overall point is?

> If a man went out in public with 1/3 of the flesh of his penis showing, everyone would be cool with it? The reality is, he'd be arrested for indecent exposure. In this case, the equivalent of what women do on a regular basis is quite literally illegal.

I don't understand what the specific double-standard you're alluding to it? I don't think a woman with exposed genitals is going to escape an indecent exposure charge.

Upthread you liken men wearing revealing clothing to sexual assault, but I've never seen this as a talking point in the gender discourse.




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