Under the hood, everything's event-based (with optional preemptive multitasking), there's just varying levels of compiler optimization that affects how much you have to do manually and how much you have to worry about it. The inner event loop of Erlang and the inner event loop of Node.js and in fact the inner event loop of just about anything nowadays looks pretty much the same.
That's not the way in which I say evented code blows up. If you can write like that, it doesn't blow up, because you don't have to sit there and basically manually implement your own stack handling if you want anything like that sort sane exception handling, it all just works.
Since this is a terminology issue there is, as always, grey areas, but since I mostly use the term evented in the context of the Node.js hype I tend to use it that way. I've been doing stuff like your snippet for a while too and it hasn't blown up on me either, which is why I'm so down on the style of coding Node.js entails, which does.
The point of my snippet is not that that is a brilliant choice intrinsically, the point is that you don't have the choice and end up implementing anything like that manually.
something = some_io_that_needs_an_event_callback()