We help each other out in this society. So in this case if you're a database developer with a good handle on deployment security, you don't put a insecure-by-default product in the hands of people who aren't. I genuinely can't understand why people are arguing to the contrary.
Even knifes are sold with some package that prevents them from cutting before the package is removed.
I agree, I don't think your job is done just because you wrote somewhere "pay attention to this".