I like this point, but it doesn't really refute ManFromUranus' point. You're talking past him.
When we create this nebulous idea of a patriarchal "society" that should guide us in all things, it is easy to blame all of one's shortcomings on society.
"Hey, I didn't get into that college!" "Society has failed you, sorry."
"Hey, I didn't win that track meet!" "Sorry, society will do it's best to not let you down in the future."
I think that if you ever try to cash in on what society owes you, you will find yourself woefully disappointed.
How many are in prison for non-violent actions that harm none but themselves?